well, i got news.. i ended up telling them, and they took it much better than i thought, in the sense that they didn't react like it was the end of the world..they were however extremely concerned, and about the exact same things i am too.. so in a way, a big load came off my shoulders..it was best i did. plus, like you said, they were able to see right through the term "good friends"...how can you keep that going for 2 years?? wow..
i say tell them if you feel the need
