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"What you do speaks so loudly that I can't hear what you're saying." Forgot who said that (or something close to that).
But the point is, asking someone what kind of person they are won't always get you honest answers. When asked "are you environmentally concerned?" the VAST majority of people will answer yes. But how many would be willing to use public transportation instead of their car once a week? Or how many people actually split up their garbage into metal, plastic etc. I'd say very few when compared to the number who are environmentally concerned.
So, do I test potential girlfriends. In a way, yes I do. They aren't very hard tests, I just want to know what type of person they are. Some of it is with their knowledge (sometimes I ask them straight up) and sometimes it isn't. I don't think what i'm doing is wrong.
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"Your name's Geek? Do you know the origin of the term? A geek is someone who bites the heads off chickens at a circus. I would never let you suck my dick with a name like Geek"
--Kevin Smith
This part just makes my posts easier to find
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