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Just be careful how you approach this, if you do, with your girl. Females have this thing in their brain, and the other dude flipped the switch to on. Now if you go off on a tirade about how this "so sweet" male friend of hers is a jerk and just wants to get into her pants, YOU, my friend, will be labelled the jerk. I suggest playing it ultra cool and just making mention of it briefly, but don't ASK for details. Something like, "Hey sweetie, how was your night the other night with Daniel?" or even play devil's advocate and suggest she hang out with him more because you think it's good she have male friends to look out for her while you're not there to protect her. This does a few things. It implies you are not jealous... girls dig that. It implies you are concerned for HER well being and HER happiness above your own. Girls REALLY dig that. The benefit is that it's almost impossible for it to backfire on you. If she hangs out with him more and ends up leaving you for him, it would've happened anyway. This way, you don't make that decision for her. Don't get me wrong, though... from what you've said, I think you have no real worries at all. Jealousy is a pain in the ass. Keep us posted.
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