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If someone said that in my presence, I would probably say, "Well, then, we're done here. I don't date bigots," and leave. Bigotry is a big one in my book.
I think there are varying levels of disagreeability. For instance, my boyfriend is a vegetarian. I'm not. I let him know when we started dating that as long as he didn't try to change me, I wouldn't try to change him. I cook vegetarian meals for the both of us at home as a compromise, and he doesn't complain when I order/eat meat when we go out. So while his ideals are different from mine, and yes, disagreeable to me, they aren't so disagreeable that it's worth arguing over or whatnot.
Religion is another issue where compromise can play a part.
But bigotry? No way. If they were really into drugs, that wouldn't fly either. If they weren't pro-choice, I'd probably break it off before it went too far. There are just some things you don't compromise on.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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