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Well, see, the funny thing is (and this is also EXACTLY like someone else posted on this line of topic) is that when we do get... uh... going, she really enjoys it (at least she says she does, and I believe her) and her behaviour during sure seems to support this statement... furthermore, I'd say about 3 out of 4 times she'll reach the O, so I really don't know what's going on.
Again, I don't know what this might mean, but the last time we had sex (before the holidays) it was great during, and she was really really into it, and then afterwards she got all upset and started crying... and I was really concerned (obviously) as to what was wrong, and she started trying to explain how she does really enjoy sex, and how she doesn't know why she doesn't seem to want it more often (even though when we do she loves it) and she was all upset because it's a great source of stress for her because she believes she should want me more, but since she doesn't she feels really guilty about the whole mess.
I really don't know what to do. Of course I supported and comforted her about it, but when it comes right down to it, there's some problem here that needs to be addressed and (if possible) fixed. I just hope it can be, because I don't know how much longer I can go on without getting what I need.
And, to reference some other posts that people made on this line of topic, I must mention that a lot of times the suggestion is for the guy to masturbate so he can release that sexual tension. Unfortunately, this suggestion doesn't work for me. When I'm pent up sexually, I do masturbate to release the sexual tension, and it works great... but alas, that's ALL it releases... the SEXUAL, PHYSICAL tension... it does nothing to alleviate the feelings of despair and longing that come from the constant rejection and lack of feeling desired by the woman you love.
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