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danny_boy · 12-19-2005, 02:35 PM

Hey,

I have been married for 4 months. Great marriage, normal ups and downs, love her more than anything...

Problem:

I was extremely sexually active before her. Not only was I very active, but my partners were very diversified. (white, asian, black, fat, skinny, etc)

Now, when I got married I knew I'd miss the variety in my sex life, but the tradeoff of marrying my soul mate vs. diversified sex was a no-brainer..marriage.

4 months now, and while sex with wife is great, I miss the variety. I have done some pretty kinky things in my younger days, and would love to experience them again. obviously, these things involve more than 1 partner, so getting the wife to try them will not happen, which I 100% agree with.

I miss the sex I had with the different types of women. I used to have a thing for older women, and that is also now over with. Im sure many guys can relate, but sex with one woman is hard as hell, and I've only been married 4 months.

The question is, do I just need to grow up and stop thinking with my dick, or is there a deeper, more serious problem that I must address.

Thanks.

12-19-2005, 02:35 PM	#1 (permalink)
danny_boy Crazy	trouble in paradise Hey, I have been married for 4 months. Great marriage, normal ups and downs, love her more than anything... Problem: I was extremely sexually active before her. Not only was I very active, but my partners were very diversified. (white, asian, black, fat, skinny, etc) Now, when I got married I knew I'd miss the variety in my sex life, but the tradeoff of marrying my soul mate vs. diversified sex was a no-brainer..marriage. 4 months now, and while sex with wife is great, I miss the variety. I have done some pretty kinky things in my younger days, and would love to experience them again. obviously, these things involve more than 1 partner, so getting the wife to try them will not happen, which I 100% agree with. I miss the sex I had with the different types of women. I used to have a thing for older women, and that is also now over with. Im sure many guys can relate, but sex with one woman is hard as hell, and I've only been married 4 months. The question is, do I just need to grow up and stop thinking with my dick, or is there a deeper, more serious problem that I must address. Thanks.