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genuinegirly · 12-07-2005, 01:16 PM

The best way to deal with jealousy is to get to know the person better that is causing it. As you understand and grow to love the person, the jealousy should start to die down. It's a difficult thing. Give it time and have a few girl's day out events with just the two of you. Also good to invite her along to things with the bf, s you can see their interactions and understand the differences between your relationship and the friendship he has with this other girl.

If he really won't give you the option of meeting her, I have no good advice, other than to convince him that it is important to you. Make sure you tell him how you are jealous and that you don't know how to deal with it.

12-07-2005, 01:16 PM	#26 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	The best way to deal with jealousy is to get to know the person better that is causing it. As you understand and grow to love the person, the jealousy should start to die down. It's a difficult thing. Give it time and have a few girl's day out events with just the two of you. Also good to invite her along to things with the bf, s you can see their interactions and understand the differences between your relationship and the friendship he has with this other girl. If he really won't give you the option of meeting her, I have no good advice, other than to convince him that it is important to you. Make sure you tell him how you are jealous and that you don't know how to deal with it. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy Last edited by genuinegirly; 12-07-2005 at 01:19 PM..