I guess i've been not called so often that it honestly doesn't bother me if someone doesn't call after a first date... i don't think it's rude nor do i think the person is a jerk - i get it after one phone call not returned...
Is it supposed to make me feel better that he tells me to my face that I sucked.. he hated me.. I had no personality.. i was ugly... whatever reason? Nope-i'd rather go with the knowlege that he was so in love with me - that he got distracted - -walked into traffic and with me on his mind - he got hit by a semi and died... and THAT's why i never heard from him again...
I'm ok with that...
calling her and telling her you have no interest in her only leads to more questions -and the person insisting they'll change or trying to refute everything that was said for his reasons... especially if she's the needy sort.
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Last edited by maleficent; 12-07-2005 at 01:04 PM..
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