innovis

So I kind of hooked up with this chick for some sexual fun 2 months ago (non-intercouse stuff), but afterword we didn't really see each other or make any attempt to continue it.

She told me she was planning to lose 60 pounds, how tired she was of not being able to wear attractive clothing, etc. After she'd told me that (it was a large concern for me, my father is probably going to die within 2 years from the side effects of his morbid obesity) I told her that if we were going to have a relationship that she'd have to follow through with her plans because I have become more health concious and I feel it necessary that my partner is relatively healthy(she probably weighs more than me [in the 220+ range]). So basically she didn't lose weight and knew that she wouldn't have me so she didn't interact (this was after that encounter).

Fast forward to a week ago. She friends my roommate via myspace, and I guess they talked occasionally. I was out of town last weekend for Thanksgiving, and he ends up hanging out with her Saturday night (first time he or I have seen her in 2 months). And then Sunday night she spends the night. And then like 2 other nights this week. And she had planned to sleep over the other nights as well.

I really don't have any emotional attatchment to her at all, because I can see she wasn't right for me in the first place, she was just probably the most sexually agressive girl I've been with and it was a fun, eye openning experience. On the other hand, I feel weird because shes going after my roommate now, and it weirds me out that hes "going somewhere I've been", I guess? He acts differently around her, now I'm usually the odd one out getting picked on or pushed to the side, for this girl he wasn't all that interested in 2 months ago (in fact he made fun of her). I can't just say, don't date her, or whathave you, but I really feel like shes knowingly getting between our friendship.

Suggestions? Comments?