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Sultana seems to have given some good advice and insight. I would dump this guy and not look back. It sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. He has a 'back-uo' girl that he constantly talks to and hasn't been with because of circumstances. I'm guessing they are friends with benefits. You are 20 years old and you don't need to put up with a guy like this. I'd get out before it gets anymore dramatic and confusing. Sorry if this comes across as harsh, but life is too short to be miserable. This relationship is going to get worse, not better. Of course, I'm not a fortune teller. Just from what I have seen in my life, that's the most likely outcome.
They say that you have to work at relationships, but I've been married for almost 5 years and we've been together for 8. It seems that you've been working more at this relationship than any woman should. A good relationship has little drama. The guy you are with should be like your best friend. And while I'm on that...best friends don't hurt each other. It seems to me that he is hurting you pretty badly. Chin up and do what's best for you!
the end of my 2 cents.
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