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I have to say I think it sounds like more than *just friends* feelings. The fact that they spend hours every single day communicating to each other, yet she can't invest any time in communicating with you is the big flag for me (by the way, what did your bf say about that?).
I've kinda sorta been in this situation too, as far as being the "beth" (a male's non-romantic friend), and I have *always* been sure to invest myself in my friend's SOs. It's not a problem, because they are just my friends, but as such if someone is important to them, than that person is important to me. I have a hard time believing it is "just friends", at least on her side, and yet she won't make the effort to get to know you. I can't believe she's such a big part of your bf's life, and you haven't even met her?? Wow.
I'm not saying they're fooling around or anything, but according to this (and of course I'm aware this is only one side of the coin), I can see how you'd be very uncomfortable with the situation. I would be too, and I am not a jealous person.
Good luck, and please feel free to keep us updated on the situation.
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