I guess it all depends on how large you comunity is. Life in the big city, there are soooo many people that you can afford to be picky. I met this columbian gal in L.A. who'll only date columbians. It's a big city, so she can do that. In a small town, on the other hand, there'll be like 5 people you can go out with. And if 3 of them have fleas, and the other 2 are you cousins, well, what are you gonna do...
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"I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip."
Roger Zelazny
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