sometimes, just because it's natural. it's not like we actively try to have a rap session after each time. if we're both not exhausted and passed out (happens), then we'll talk and laugh. i like being able to take mental notes for next time, but some people are just more shy about it than others and it doesn't feel natural to force the issue. though it seems ironically it's more important in these situations, and in new relationships as mentioned, to talk about it and see what goes well and what wasn't exactly an award winning move. plus who can ever hear "that was amazing!" enough times?
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