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Originally Posted by gh0ti
See, I called her out on this at dinner Friday.. "You don't know what the F' you want do you?" and she just laughed about it saying no.
It's funny, I'm not looking for a serious relationship, but at the sametime I am. I think I'm almost in the same boat she's in, I dont know what I want. I'm the happiest I've probably ever been right now, but at the same time, I miss having someone around all the time.
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In that case, as long as you both know you're just 'screwing around' on the relationship front, this might be okay for you for a while. Depends on what you want to get out of it, as well as what she wants to get out of it. As long as neither of you is deluding each other or yourself, you should be fine.
However, figuring out if she is deluding herself is tough at this relationship stage. That's why this kind of thing can often go bad.
Overall, as you're aware, it's your call. Just stop and think about what you want, as well as what you might be stepping into. Make an informed (or as informed as you can get) decision, and you can't really go wrong. The relationship may, but remember that you haven't.
Good luck, with whatever choices you make!