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People are like that. They take for granted the fact that you invite them over, but the real point is that they just don't notice the need to return the favor. It's not that they do this on purpouse.
I've had a similar problem for a long time, and got so fed up with it, that I just stopped calling them. After something like three months they finally called and this is when I told them how I feel about our one sided relatioinship. Things got better since then. I just got fed up with being disrespected, and rspected is something important. Sometimes it pays to tell people that if they won't start respecting you, they can go hell. Most of the time it works. When it doesn't, it pretty much means they weren't true friends in the first place.
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