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Went through a similar episode with my wife, it lasted 9 months. She was stressed about a varietty of things and no matter what I did or said she was not interested in any intimacy at all. One night we were hanging out with another couple and as a joke the wife told her husband that for some silly remark he had made he was down to once a month from once a week and if he didn't watch it he'd be down to once a year. My wife laughed and said something to the effect that for us it would be more like 2 or 3 times a week. I was surprised but didn't say anything then.
Later that evening after our friends had left I asked her how often she would estimate that we had sex, she repeated the 2 to 3 times a week line. I responded that it had been about nine months and she was shocked, she didn't believe me but finally after some talking and she realized that I was right. She had been so stressed that she didn't even realize how long it had been. I'm happy to say that the dry spell ended the next night.
Does your wife know how long it's been? I certainly hope that things work out for you.
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