I thought it's normal to have a 'wrap-up' with your partnet after having sex. I mean, don't you all just feel like doing it? There are a lot of things to say after orgasms. Like, sharing with your partner how you liked it, etc. Me and my partner find littel talks after sex extremely enjoyable and somehow comforting. Like, the chats don't even have to be just about how the session was- it can just drift to everything interesting...
I dunno. If my partner would fall asleep right away after having sex I would feel like I am just a sex toy she treasures more- and if I fall asleep right away I know she'll feel the same- it's some kind of mutual understand isnt it? Luckily neither of us pass out right away- unless either of us get really tired afterwards, even so we'll chat up for a few minutes and just make it really clear that 'I'd really like to talk more but you can see me falling asleep, I'm really tired...' and well, it works also fine for us like that.
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