Jinn

Girls will be girls, and bitchy girls will be bitchy girls. By giving credit to her and her friend via your anger and vehement disagreement, you give credibility to her argument. If you're an "asshole," you screaming and being upset about the things she says is only adding fuel to the fire. It makes her (you claim) outlandish insults more real and believable. If you stand back and don't say a word, she appears to be the insult-spewing whore that she is. If you move on and get a new girlfriend, her "insult" of being gay becomes an unlikely statement coming from HER mouth. She loses credibility by you ignoring her.. you gain credibility by being above her foul and slanderous mouth. I know that in elementary school (yes, this is elementary behavior) if I said "NO I'M NOT" when the bully called me gay.. he kept saying if it. If I just laughed at him and kept playing basketball, he suddenly looked like the fool and stopped.

Chalk it up as one more irrational girl being what SHE thinks is a good friend. Hell, your ex-girlfriend might even tell her to stop once she realizes how unfazed you are. Don't let her bully you or control your emotions.

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