It doesn't sound like either of you are having sex issues of your own... I'd be pretty upset if I were you, going 10 months without booty in a new marriage. I would think that's pretty unusual. We sometimes go 2 weeks, and it's completely my doing, but even for me, that's a long time.
It sounds like the men need to consider therapy of some kind. I know how body issues can destroy your libido.. perhaps the combination of professional help plus your support can improve matters. Seriously... try to talk to them about it. Sex isn't the only thing, but it's an important part of the intimacy of marriage.
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