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Originally Posted by maleficent
exactly - temptation is what caused adam and eve's banishment from the garden of eden... temptation is something that should be avoided.
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Nope. Acting on the temptation is what got them banished.
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i would consider it different than mistrust or jealousy. both mistrust and jealousy are pretty superficial emotions, tempation gets to the core of a person's character. It's like saying, i trust you completely, but why would you put yourself in a position that could quite possibly lead to trouble.
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That is not complete trust. Not saying its right or wrong, but call it what it is.
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when people cheat, with few exceptions, it's not something that they intended to go out and do, it just happened they gave into temptation.
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So the root issue is that she thinks something might happen?
I'm not saying that the girlfriend's feelings are wrong here. But she needs to understand
why she thinks it is wrong for Vitamin_H to keep up his current arrangements. Then they can work on a solution to the problem.