As someone who generally needs a pair of plieabout of me... I can tell you there are a thousand reason for it (all fo them good and logical in my head) and it requires the right person with the right about of patience... She might be worth it in the long run, it depends on what her reaction will be to you're inability to change your current living situation.
I think that y'all need to find some sort of middle ground where her values arent being sacraficed (and kudos to you for not trying to change her) and you are not being inconvienced. (It honestly sounds like you really don't care so much about your living situation - it's just convenient right now... and when the opportunity presents itself financially and time wise, you'd move in a heartbeat) so the crux of the issue is really her perceived values vs what's best for you
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