If I were you I'd already have shaved this girls head while she slept and put her hand in a bowl of warm water...because I'm mature like that.
My theory is, girls can hit on my boyfriend. They're responsible for their own behaviour and if they want to be that kind of person that's fine with me. However, it's my boyfriend's responsibility to choose his behaviour in response. He can play along, say nothing or tell the girl that he has a girlfriend and isn't interested. If she's all over him in a physical way then he needs to say something. If she's all over him emotionally, he needs to say something. You shouldn't have to share your s/o at that kind of physical or emotional level (unless you want to that is).
Friends are friends, yea. But I dont put myself in situations with friends of the opposite sex that would make my boyfriend feel uncomfortable. Example. You shouldn't have to trust your better half in a hotel room, alone with a woman because he shouldn't be putting himself in that situation.
My boyfriend knows how I feel about this stuff, does yours? The only way he'll be able to respect your feelings is if you let him know straight out what they are.
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