Originally Posted by BugLover

Islandflea, it sounds like we are married to the same man. It is frustrating to be the only one in the relationship attempting to initiate sex. In my case I gave up. I can count on one hand how many times we've *done it* since we got married almost a year ago, and that was only in the first 2 months. Nothing since then! I used to just look at him and it would get me going. Now, I feel like the spark is completely gone. He has even made the choice to sleep on the couch most nights - i think because he is afraid that I'll *try something*! Our marriage has been reduced to pecks on the cheek. Talk about frustrating!