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Originally Posted by Ustwo
Obviously you have been hurt in the past by someone, but don't impose your trauma on the OP who seems to have a pretty good head on her shoulders and has handled this quite well.
As for your wish, my belly is the best it has been in 7 years, my hair IS falling out but luckily for me bald is in, I'm a dentist so my teeth are covered, and so far my problem with erections is having them too often (see my thread in this board). As for my poor wifes post partem body, she needed a nudge to get back to being in shape and shes now the best she has been since about 2000. Its amazing what watching what you eat and working out can do in just a couple months.
For anyone not happy with their weight/body I do hope they find the will power in themselves to change what is infinitely changeable.
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I wouldn't make tactless,hurtful remarks to a casual friends,co-worker concerning the size/shape of their body parts, so I'd never dream of doing so to someone I've purported to love.
Obviously anybody in their right mind would be concerned if a spouse was rapidly becoming obese and/or showed other signs of self-neglect but one would hope this stemmed from real love/concern for their partner.Heck, at that point I'd be more worried about whatever my SO might be suffering/struggling with internally than any superfical concern of mine.
We might need a "thick skin" to tolerate the crude,rude thoughtless remarks made by outsiders but not in our own homes and not from people who supposedly love us.
With lovers like that who needs enemies?
As far as men go, I keep myself trim,exercise regularly and do the best I can with what with what I've got.If a man decides at any point that he's disatisfied with that
and he's entitled to make nasty comments he's more than welcome to take his "nudges" and ease on down the road
