Jinn

Whoa there.. he didn't say "God you're fat and I don't love you" as the replies seem to be conveying thus far... he said he wasn't as attracted to her because she had a slight belly. That's not about falling out of love with her because she's not as "pretty" as he wishes, thats about telling her his attraction preferences. That's the honesty that I think a relationship SHOULD have. I think the person attaching weight to love is the reciever, not the deliverer.

Being sensitive about your weight and being irrational seem to come hand in hand. If he said that he wasn't as attracted to you becuase your hair was longer, would you really be offended? To me, its a security issue.. and weight seems to be an issue that most women are insecure about, due to our stupid culture telling you that you must be a size 0.

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