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Movies & dinner is fine but... an easy way around this is to negotiate in advance. You pay for the date you've taken her on she can pay for both of you the "next time" which ensures another date and also leaves both of you feeling like there isn't a debt owing. Or if you go to the movies, you buy the tickets and she buys the popcorn.
What I'm talking about is showing up with a dozen red roses for your date and a stretch limo to take you to the most expensive restaurant in town. Does that sound like a bit over the top? She'll think so, and wonder if you're nuts.
Regarding the AIM incident.... don't assume anything you can get the facts on. Even if she's not interested in you as a boyfriend, you can at least be friends. If she continues to ignore you, just ask her outright why and if you should leave her alone. Talk to her in person and get the facts rather than jumping to conclusions.
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