My wife and I enjoy each other's company greatly. During the day we are seperate, as needed due to jobs, etc. (on weekdays) In the evenings, we are together, normally with the kids. We have friends, most of which are couples, and all of them can be"divided" out in many ways, whether it's guys or girls or those who drink vs those who do not, etc. We are always free to go out without the SO, but after 13 years of marriage we tend to prefer to go out together. We simply don't get the time to be alone together all that often. We always maintained, and still do, our relationships outside the marriage, and after this much time invested, neither gets at all jealous or concerned if the other wants to go out with one or more of those friends alone. (though we do normally wind up wishing that the other was there.)
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