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Originally Posted by abaya
This is normal. You ARE handling it. Sometimes life is really sad. Sometimes you will feel angry. Sometimes you will want so very badly to just talk to her. It's okay to FEEL these things... you have to let them run through you, let them run their full course and bulldoze your soul for a while. But while you feel things deeply, do not let them control you. Don't call her. Feel the pain of not calling her, but don't give in to it. It sucks. But it's better that way, in my experience.
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abaya.. well said and totally true..
This is what life is also about, we shouldn't change these things or try to fix them. Sink into them and get to know them, it's all a part of it.
And yes, we are all here to support you while you go through this ElwoodBlues. Best wishes...