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Originally Posted by ktspktsp
Also, if you could please use more paragraphs in the future, it'll make your post a bit easier to read. A whole block of text is kinda visually confusing.
Thanks.
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I'll second that motion...
Don't keep score. It just means you're focusing on what you get, not on what you can give. It sounds like you have fallen into a rut together, and ruts come from not talking and being open about really pushing your sexual adventures together.
Try turning it into a tug of war with each other - she wants oral sex, fine. she gets a bit, but she has to give you a lap dance first., etc. Get creative and challenge each other with off the wall requests so that you're never quite sure what the other one will come up with next.