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Originally Posted by Cartuni
The best thing I did through all of the horrible years was to keep the lines of communication open. I never turned my back on her, and always let her know I loved her even if I disagreed with her choices.
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From another single mum of one who is not yet a teen.. I think this is a really great point. My father took this approach with me, although I was completely pig-headed, I knew my parents cared and I could come home any time I needed to.. and I did, when I was 22 with my then 9 month old daughter.
I really feel for you in your situation Demeter.. I was going to suggest you speaking to your daughter of your concerns and fears.. and it's wonderful to see you doing just that. I know I too lose sleep and suffer great turmoil when I see my daughter going astray.
You have had many good responses and each have their worth.. all the best to you and yours...