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Originally Posted by SpaceMonkey
So assuming she decides developing things physically is not something she wants to do for now, is there any other way to ease her out of this perspective and help her see sex (in the right contex of course) as a healthy and romantic thing to make things easier once she physically feels ready?
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I think the answer here is that going to college will expose her to more attitudes from different perspectives. It did me.
It's likely that she will make friends with her peer group, and meet girls that have been sexually active for years and not died of shame or caught diseases, or whatever she's frightened of.
It sounds like she's not frightened of LOVE, she's frightened of LUST.
Seeing lusty behaviour around her will open her up (re-reading that I realise it's an appaling pun, for which I apologise) to new ideas about her own sexuality I suspect.
If waiting is cool with you the gentlest thing you can do is wait until she wants to try lust.
And when she does - hang onto your hat. There is nothing on earth that has the primal force of a good catholic girl that decides to get dirrty.
