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First, I'll buy the fact that you're 18. You've provided other facts about school and your relationship that seem to bear this out.
Second, what do YOU want out of this relationship? It sounds like you want a sexual relationship with this person and are meeting some resistance. Your post suggests that you want some help in trying to understand her feelings, so that you can persuade her into becoming more physical.
Let's run through a few scenarios. Let's assume that she doesn't want to have sex right now, nor will she for the next year. Is this okay with you? Are you willing to wait for several months?
Let's now assume that she agrees to have sex right away. What kind of relationship are you wanting to develop with her? Are you thinking long-term or just wait-and-see what happens?
You age has a lot to do with this situation. Couples that get together at 18 (whether sexually active or not) usually don't go on to spend the rest of their lives together. Not that this can't happen in this particular situation, but you'll have to agree that it's unlikely.
Your intelligence is showing through...your smarter than your originial post/question. You already know what she wants and you know what you want. Fortunately, you're both at an age where you don't have to make "any" decisions. Take each day as it comes and let us know how it all turns out.
MoJo
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