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Your patience is truly admirable. Keep it up and it won't go unrewarded. Eventually she'll figure out what she wants--and if what she wants isn't sex, bear with her. We're not all ready to go at the same time. I didn't lose my virginity till I was 19 and I grew up in a perfectly liberal and understanding household. It's like a puzzle--all the pieces have to fall into place for it to work and for a girl to want to take that step. So just wait, continue to be understanding, and all will be well. There's nothing you can do to help her make this decision except be understanding and willing to talk about it with her--but don't push her. That's the worst thing you can do. I realize you aren't doing that now, but the longer the waiting goes on, the more likely men are to start--don't be like other men. Good luck.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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