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Old 05-15-2005, 09:32 PM   #1 (permalink)
Koochy
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Location: New Zealand
UPDATED: Help needed :(

During University today, my gf txt's me and says shes coming to see me in town. She was home sick for the day from school - which made me wonder why she would come in.

Immediately when I hugged her at lunch, I knew something was up. She got a hot choccy from Starbucks and we went up stairs to the couches area. She sat down and burst into silent tears. She explained to me how she said she had recently been to the doctor to have a smear (I knew this already) then said that a letter in the mail had arrived, saying they had found something abnormal, and said she had to go to the hospital in 3 weeks.

I could barely speak. I asked her if this was something of my doing, had I given her something? She said the smear doesn't detect anything to do with STD's (is this true?). I briefly breathed then asked carefully what could be the matter. Through a long silence, she seemed to struggle to talk. I think she said something about it could be Cervical Cancer.. or something (it was hard to understand her).

I was hoping someone, anyone had any knowledge on this matter. What could be wrong with her, if she has been requested to visit the hospital? She's really distraught over this, and I can't bring myself to asking her any more information on the topic. She was just a complete mess. Just yesterday she was cheerful as ever, eating pizza with me in my room :(.

PLEASE if anyone could direct me to any sites of things that could be wrong with her. I don't want to lose her (although that is obviously not in my control) - but I would like to have some more information on what I could be about to face.

Thanks for everything and anything TFP <3
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