My theory is these women just don't know themselves well enough, and are so stuck in themselves that they don't even consider 'the other side'.
I'm not sure if it comes with maturity, but overall a general consideration for 'others' in your interactions makes my dealings easier for myself and others. It also allows for a more intimate relationship to form with any person you associate with. How can you appreciate anyone while you are too busy filling your own needs and playing with them?
Sure, it may be a high for a while but I find that you end up being the perpetual bucket with holes in it. You can never be filled enough.
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To those who wander but who are not lost...
~ Knowledge is not something you acquire, it is something you open yourself to.
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