uptown

I think the biggest question is how will your husband react if he finds out about this accidently rather than from some frank discussion with you ?

I'd imagine if he's really conservative that such a discovery might totally devastate him.Better to talk with him about it he might not agree with your choice of solo pleasure but at least you'll get a chance to be clear with him about what your boundaries are and that you're not in any way shape or form meeting anybody or physically cheating.If he finds out on his own who knows what he'll think you're up to or how he'll react.I would be afraid of risking that possibilty.