Originally Posted by Sage

Martel and I decided that our wedding would reflect us, and not be done to please anyone else. Since we believed that we were already married in spirit, before god, and pleged to each other already, we eventually decided to go to the courthouse one rainy thursday afternoon to get married. It took five minutes, we went to TGIF's after. A marriage does not happen because of a wedding, nor does a wedding define a marriage. Do what makes you both happy, and what reflects your love in the best way