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I'm not an expert in the subject but I have witnessed a lot of the same situation and I can say is "cut all strings attached."
If you try to be her friend right now you are just kidding yourself. You will use "being her friend" as an excuse to keep seeing her.
Find another girl, another friend, anyone to hang out with. Keep yourself occupied with as many tasks as possible. Then, months down the line, you might be able to see her without getting emotional. Also, this sounds bad, but finding something you don't like about her or something that irritates you about her and concentrating on it sometimes help, as sick as that sounds. Good luck.
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