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Originally Posted by 98107
hey, guys, fort it might help if i get some ideas from some guys i dont know, recently my girlfriend has broken up with me, and i just cant get her out of my head, one minute i will be soo happy then the thought pops back into my head and brings me right back down!! anyone got any ideas of how to move on???
do you think i should still try to talk to her and become friends (thats what she wants) or should i delete all her numbers from my phone, msn conatact etc and try to not make contact at college? i know it sounds pathetic, but i am at the moment!! lol
thanks guys
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I just wanted to let you know that I can totally empathize with you. It's a hard thing to deal with.
The reality of the situation - as mine is almost identical to yours - is that if you choose to delete her completely it may set you into a spiral where you cannot get her out of your head - at all. I made the decision to keep my guy on my contact lists and keep the links to his profiles (we had a 2 1/2 year relationship online), etc. and soon I was able to surround myself with other things and as of the last 6-10 weeks I've noticed that he's been out of my head and I've pretty much forgotten about him...he still pops in now and then, in my head and online, but it doesn't make me upset or sad anymore (which is totally nice). We've been able to remain civil (even though this has taken some effort on my part), and I miss him but it's easier to get over him because I have other things to keep me occupied - work, TFP, writing (poetry, stories, letters, etc), and so on.
Give it time...talk it out if you feel it's necessary (we're all here to help eachother). Take care and keep a smile on your face.
