There is more than one drug for all of her problems, especially depression. Ask your doctor to let her try a different antidepressant and go from there. Some antidepressants are specifically formulated to avoid damaging libido.
Also, the combination of her being afraid to masturbate AND afraid to talk about her own pleasure is a little fishy... it sounds like she feels uncomfortable with the recieving end of a relationship. Is she normally very "giving" (does errands for you, cooks for you, buys you presents, then says 'you shouldn't have' when you bring home flowers)? Many woman are more comfortable giving than receiving, and it gets in the way of their orgasm. This is something that can be 100% fixed with talk therapy, so I'd recommend you find her a good, reputable counselor, possibly one who also does couples counseling.
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