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Well, I would say what others have first of all, that it may be the medication she is on... but sometimes I think that by making something into a big issue, you can build up a lot of stress and pressure around it and it can make things worse. Maybe you should just try pampering her, give her a massage, and do - well Im not going to try and be explicit - but erotic things... dont be so hung up on that she has to orgasm and its a failure if it doesnt happen, just maybe you need to relax and both enjoy just doing stuff together, and make her feel sexy - make her feel like you are really into this, rather than just hell for leather trying to achieve one result and taking it bad on yourself if it doesnt happen...
You just... literally spend an evening engaging in the just pure foreplay, and see what happens from it, dont get too hung up on achieving the "money shot" so to speak.
And maybe also you should both seek the advice of a dr, Im pretty sure what you are going through is not unique... and I agree she cant come of meds that she needs just to improve her sex life, but there are other options perhaps.
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