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Originally Posted by FEIGN
She has never really been comfortable pleasuring herself. She says she doesn't need to since she has me. She told me she has done it in the past, before me, but not since. I afraid it might be a combo of illness, meds, and psychie. I'm dooooomed. I can't take her off the meds just to have an orgasm. And I've tried oral and most other things. I have asked her to help me by talking to me while we're doing it, to let me know if she wants me change something I'm doing or do something specific. But she has just never been real comfortable talking about sex that way. She used to be like a sexual dynamo, always wanting it, and always getting satisfied. She's not nervous talking about sex in general even in specifics. But when it comes to talking about how something i'm doing feels to her or is she would like to try masterbating herself she clams up. I don't know what to do.
Thank you all for your help.
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Son... I think your better half needs to develop a more positive attitude towards masturbation. I think she's putting too much expectation on you and isn't willing to do her part to guarantee her sexual pleasure.