Hmm...I think it's good that they want to spend some time with you. There have obviously been some bridges that have been torn down between you and your family, and you can't really expect those to be repaired instantly. I would say maybe give it a try, and feel it out.
Perhaps your father's starting to feel really guilty about not having a good relationship with his son? I dont think any parent wants to die knowing that they didn't get along with their kids.
In the end, I think it's better to patch things up, rather than to continue to hate eachother.
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