Originally Posted by dbh

This is not really an answer to your question, but thought I'd share an experience with you. While I've never paid for sex, in my younger days I had some...umm...experiences. When my wife and I first started dating we talked about these things and it didn't bother her. For some reason, now that we're married, it DOES bother her. Wish I'd had the forsight to keep my mouth shut. I'm a firm believer in what's past is past - as long as it doesn't put anyone else in danger. She has a bad habit of asking questions she really doesn't want the answer to. Now I know to avoid those conversations, but there was a time I felt like I shouldn't keep secrets.