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i think you've got some solid advice thus far, i would say the following:

1. if it bothers you, it bothers you. don't try to not "let it bother you," because it's just going to end up bothering you. trace it to it roots, evaluate it, and make a decision.

2. it's almost definately a need for psychological space issue, or an evaluation of his ability to adapt at john h. said.

3. you may also have some conflict over your reaction to new stimili in a new place, and having your bf around from a previous location. hope that doesn't sound offensive, but i've found sometimes when i change locations i actually have a mild tendency to reject things associated with my previous situation, as i'm all about getting into my new place.

4. is his behavior now more-or-less consistent with his behavior in la?

edit: yeah, in general i personally think it's a good idea to have your own friends - maybe it just takes him some time. i can't stand being around my so (when i've got one, that is) all the time. after a while i'll start to resent them. heavily.

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