I have to agree with all others who have already said it, get off the BC! This same thing happened to me right after I went on the pill. I had just turned 18 when my husband and I started dating and we were both virgins so I wasn't already on any kind of birth control. When we first started having sex we just used condoms but I went on the pill very soon after. I was only on the pill for around 6 months when I started having problems with them. And one of the problems was I almost completly lost my sex drive. I figure he was probably feeling a lot like you are now, and we both agreed it was best for me to get off the pill. Now 6 years together and our sex life is great. Just hang in there and hope everything works out for ya!
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