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Originally Posted by skysooner
What I found out through time is that the sex that you can achieve with one partner is so much more exciting than you can with someone strange.
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Yesssss this is so important to remember!! I think this is a great point... especially since my bf and I have pretty much only had each other, and I don't think it takes away from our sex life at all. I love getting to know new sides of him, and at the same time knowing him so well... I never get bored.
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Originally Posted by skysooner
Even today, I still look at a pretty girl and imagine sex with her. It is just something ingrained, but I have control over the intensity of it now where I had a hard time controlling it early in my marriage. I never did stray, but the temptation was surely there.
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I think everyone has temptations, but you do grow out of them once you learn how to have self-control and realize how meaningless and destructive it would be to give in to them. At least, that's my hope! And skysooner confirms this.
