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ng makes a good point. bongo, remember, youre real and porn cant be the what helps him through the ups and downs of life, and if it does, then there is a problem. but you arent alone in that feeling. i can only look at porn myself in limited amounts cuz i feel shitty quickly and ive mostly resorted to not looking through my SO's collection for the same reason (cuz yea, that nagging feeling of "is he comparing them to me?" lingers in my head).
but yea, it comes down to the first and most important priority is "Love yourself" from there, things can change and get better.
do what you need to for yourself, and find the support necessary and i bet it will come from him (or at least im hoping!) good luck!
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