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Ok, women and men tend to take a long time to become "hot" in bed. Why? because the man usually takes a long time to learn that forplay is king in the bedroom, and women need to first learn how to relax, and then to stop thinking about it and do what feels good.
Now, as everyone said, your first time will suck looking back. You're nervous, you're thinking about what the other person is liking, and your mind is going a million miles an hour. By about your dozenth time you're beginning to relax and maybe then start trying new things, you'll learn what you like, and what you dont like.
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