This is a difficult situation that I had no idea what I would do if I were dealing with such. Atleast your girlfriend is open minded about it. I can only imagine how hard it must be to fight temptations. But, there is a time when we have to give up certain things, especially if you are in love with your present girlfriend, you need to give your past up. You should only be satisfied with her and her alone. Now, if she is willing to have 3-somes, then, you should try it, if not, just leave it alone and hope to fight harder to overcome these urges. I agree with Tecoyah on becomming a man, you really need to look further into the future and tell yourself that you are ready for a mature relationship, I hope you overcome this. Good luck.
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